Church elders, to approach the father and his parents. Getting help from your Minister will be advisable, as parents you also need support. As much as it is a life changing experience for the young couple, it is equally the same for the parents some whom blame themselves or even each other. This is a sensitive time for all concerned. It is a time to come together as a family and ask God to help you make right decisions. It is also a time for healing and adjustments. Getting the support and counseling from your Minister is very important, it will help to breach the gap between the parents and the couple.

An unprepared pregnancy will have a huge impact on the young girl and if there are other siblings. It is a huge change for the entire family.